#like 'yeah i've been thinking of doing more with ecss (electronics & computer science society rip) this year would be nice to see u there!'

[immortalsins]

About your meeting up problems...idk if it would work in your case but what I did a few times in this situation was to say smth like "yeah I'm sure we can get a few people together to hang out" bc then if they just meant as friends then it's fine w them but if they wanted smth more it forces them to be direct about it and then I could explain I'm not interested in dating. Again, idk if it would work in your situation but just wanted to share in case it could be helpful

oooh this is so kind of u to suggest, thank you!!

we don't have many friends in common, just the same uni department, so if i mentioned something about wanting to do more social stuff with our society this year ... could work 😭😭 i hope he'd take that as a hint-hint-i-don't-want-to-date-you